Travelling to Burundi with children was a spontaneous move. At the beginning of March, my mother’s ticket had been bought and it did not seem convenient for me to go to Burundi with her. I thought that we had work to do in Tarnita and that I would stay and help Stefan with the preparation for the summer season. Stefan was kind enough to remind me that I couldn’t be useful without my mother. On the contrary, I will need help when it comes to handling the children. Then he asked me why I wasn’t going to Burundi. He was right, but it was not easy to turn this idea…